by MARSHALL BONE
Love is an adventure, and for many, it reaches its peak when a destination proposal combines the thrill of travel with the heartfelt promise of forever. The idea of popping the question against a backdrop of sweeping landscapes or romantic cityscapes adds a touch of magic––elevating an already unforgettable moment. But how do you plan a proposal that’s as flawless as the love you’re celebrating? And how do you find the perfect ring to match the occasion and the person who will say “yes”?
Step 1: Choosing the Perfect Destination
The first step in planning a destination proposal is picking a location that resonates with both of you. This could be a place with sentimental value, like where you first traveled together, or a bucket-list spot you’ve always dreamed of visiting. Consider your partner’s personality and preferences:
- For the adventurer: Think about mountaintop proposals at sunrise, secluded beaches, or even underwater proposals while scuba diving.
- For the city lover: Iconic landmarks like the Eiffel Tower or the Brooklyn Bridge provide a perfect mix of urban charm and romance.
- For the serene soul: Quaint countryside settings, serene lakes, or charming vineyards create a peaceful, intimate atmosphere.
When selecting your travel destination, factor in the time of year, local regulations (some spots require permits), and whether you’ll need a photographer or guide to help pull off the surprise.
Step 2: Timing Is Everything
Timing can make or break a destination proposal. Consider the lighting, crowds, and your partner’s mood. Sunrise and sunset are often ideal for their natural beauty and softer light—plus, they’re more likely to offer some privacy. Research the best times to visit your chosen location and plan around its peak seasons. If possible, scout the area in advance or consult online forums and reviews to ensure your spot is picture-perfect.
Step 3: The Proposal Plan
A proposal isn’t just about the moment you kneel––it’s about the story you’re creating together. When it comes to how to propose to your partner, personalization is key. Incorporate elements of your relationship that are meaningful, such as:
- Recreating a memorable date or trip.
- Including a favorite song, poem, or inside joke.
- Designing a treasure hunt that leads to the proposal spot.
If you’re planning something elaborate, consider enlisting help from local vendors or professional planners who specialize in destination proposals. They can assist with logistics, decor, and making sure everything runs smoothly.
Step 4: Choosing the Ring
No proposal is complete without the perfect ring. Choosing and buying an engagement ring can feel daunting, but it’s an opportunity to show how well you know your partner’s taste and style.
Understand Their Style
Take note of the jewelry your partner wears. Do they lean toward classic and understated round moissanite engagement rings, or do they prefer bold, unique designs, like pear-shaped or marquise-cut? If you’re unsure, ask friends or family for advice—or even take a subtle walk past a jewelry store together to gauge their reactions to different styles.
Consider Practicality
Since you’re proposing while traveling, consider a design that’s durable and secure. Rings with a low profile or bezel settings are less likely to snag or get damaged during travel adventures.
Sustainable and Ethical Options
More couples are choosing ethical and sustainable options for their engagement rings. Look for rings crafted with recycled metals or lab-created gemstones, like moissanite or lab-grown diamonds. These options are not only socially and environmentally friendly but also often more affordable without sacrificing brilliance or quality.
Step 5: Ring Security While Traveling
Traveling with an engagement ring requires careful planning. Here are a few tips:
- Keep it discreet: Use a nondescript box or pouch to avoid drawing attention.
- Carry it on: When planning your travel packing, remember to never pack the ring in checked luggage; keep it with you in your personal bag to ensure it stays safe and secure.
- Secure it at the destination: Use the hotel safe or a hidden compartment in your luggage to keep the ring safe until it’s time to propose.
Step 6: Capturing the Moment
You’ll want to remember this moment forever, so think about how you’ll capture it. Hiring a professional photographer ensures high-quality photos and allows you to focus on the moment instead of fumbling with a camera. Alternatively, you could set up a tripod or enlist a trusted friend to help document the occasion. Consider whether you want the proposal itself to be private or shared with a small group of loved ones––some couples also opt for a post-proposal photo shoot to celebrate their engagement in the stunning surroundings.
The Journey Begins Here
A destination proposal is more than just a question––it’s an experience that sets the tone for your future together. By thoughtfully planning every detail and choosing a ring that reflects your partner’s unique style, you’ll create a memory that both of you will cherish forever. After all, love is a journey, and this is just the beginning of your greatest adventure yet.
Marshall Bone is a writer, copy strategist and all-around stylish guy who has been following trends in GQ for more than two decades. Voted best-dressed both his junior and senior year, Bone has continued this legacy and can be found covering various topics from men’s fashion to self care and grooming. He enjoys reading and is based in the greater Los Angeles area.
